1. Have Two Separate Bachelor Parties
Now that it's a gay endeavor, you might think a joint party involving both grooms is the way to go. Experts highly advise against this; ensure each groom has a different party at a different location. You don't want to turn a bachelor party to an engagement party. Moreover, things tend to turn wild in such parties, and it would not be healthy to get the grooms at the center of it at the same party.